1.Mindset
2.Discipline
3.Focus
Focus with Relax Self Realization
4.Patience | Persistence
5.Diligent | Dedication | Careful Evaluation
Don’t look at the result first, do your job consistently for a duration, then expect the result. one more simple piece of advice from my experience if you can't follow everything at a time try one by one with the best ability in all labor and practice. Step by step and stone by stone build your secret slowly do few things and do them well. when you are practicing good character or bad character, you won't see the result quickly. it will take time.
Mindset:
Believing basic abilities of assumption, like the belief system, method, their intelligence, and talents finally adapt to that.it is self-deceptive. To change mindset can be developed through enough practice, attempt, labor, struggle, persistence. Develop and reshape our mind through communication via blogging, presentation, or one to one communication, this will help to clarify the fact/truth about what we believe. Every Object/People will create thought/mindset. So it is always be work with right attitude people. For this we can find social connection like Gym, Church, Technology conference. From this we can help others and also we can get help from other, at the same time we need to know their mindset, we need to keep/preserve right thing from deceptive one.
Three sets of mindset
Fixed mindset: Beliefs their skills are natural this can’t be developed beyond what they have. And also get discourage with Past failures.
Don't become the victim of tender memories or worship at their shrine, but let them whet your expectation for better times ahead.
Growth Mindset: Look for improvement and enhance the skill. Believe their strengths can be developed with effort reaching a higher level of achievement and ability.
Benefit mindset: seek to be well and do good. Develop their strength in a meaningful contribution to the future of great possibility.
We are called to be architects of the future, not its Victims - Buckminster Fuller.
Your life is as good as your mindset.
Difficult roads often lead to a beautiful destination.
If you change the way you look at things, the thing you look at changes.
I have not failed, I have just found 10000 ways that won’t work - Thomas Edison
Discipline
Discipline is controlled your impulses, emotion, reactions, and behavior. Rather than staying in a comfort zone, Go to the Learning phase. If you are not disciplined, you can not follow your desire. You will just follow your duties, not your desire. It is not easy, but it would be interesting towards success Goal. The discipline is not always a straight line, sometimes are going wired.
Discipline: Daily steps forward. No Discipline(Indulgence): staying at the sample place.
Discipline is the easiest way to do hard things in an easier way. How? through a well organized and planned way, Discipline is the ability to do what’s important before it becomes urgent. I don’t believe in stressful hard work, instead, plan and doing everything organized in a smart way. Discipline is a good way for character building, and also increases knowledge about what you love instead of just doing your duties/labor.
Discipline main side tracker: lazy, poor health/tiredness, room infrastructure/adapt to the gossip with self-pity, condemnation, poor planning.
Example: Take good example character from great Leadership, spiritual man, sports players.
“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” — Albert Einstein
“Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.” - Mother Teresa
Focus
It is a very important Character, your goal needs to be very clear. You should not go away from your focus. Don’t respond to out-of-boundary calls only respond to your boundary calls(eliminate). Don’t be multitasking, do one job at a time. In our time there is a lot of distraction are there like Facebook, LinkedIn, unnecessary calls, and videos. if we use social media and technology wisely, it is really good to connect people and learn from others or it will distract our focus. Your thought will make your clear focus. So careful about what you hear, see, speak.it is about your choice. Because we have only one life, what we live is through God that is matter. whatever we present our skill/talent needs to present ourselves in beautiful, peace, Quality with content. Not in chaos, confusion, as mention earlier don't go out of the boundary, stay where you are, and be vigilant and observer. Through you can learn a lot. Successive people management is a vital role. if you want to increase focus on your thought process. Do daily physical exercise. it will improve your focus.
Focus with simplicity: if you make anything simple your focus would be clear and precise.
F - Fewer thing was done better.
C - Communicate the right things to the right people.
S - speed and quality of decision making.
Note: Remove unwanted item from your notes/To do List will help you to make and think better.
Focus on the possibilities for success, not on the potential for failure.
Your life is controlled by what you focus on.
You get what you focus on, so focus on what you want.
Where focus goes energy flows.
Focus with Relax Self Realization: continuous an hour working leads to loss of focus and also loss of interest. So take a small gap and take a rest(which will help to unwire your thought) and come back with focused energy. sleep is good medicine and recovery for daily activities. Also if you are not feel comfortable, rather just doing for the earning money/for name sake it won't go for longer period. So whatever we are doing we have to do it from heart, Sometime if we feel miss something or not feel good, we have to tune/alert required things(information/object) and get best result.
The main important things is we have to meditate about what we are doing rather just bluff, for this we need do it with careful observation and try know about how that core technology How is built, and thing about how to make it easier for daily regular activates. While meditating on that perspective, we may get different thought deceptive, good thought. if you response to deceptive you will lose your wealth, at the same time if you response to good thought, it will helps to create the wealth for the future and make your life meaningful and also will gain self learning. Because what you have learn from others it will help up to certain point, But what you are learnt from your own experience that is strength. For this we need to have enough time, So what are the time you are getting we have to use it as opportunity.
Self Realization on Health
80-20 rule is also applicable on this, Because 20 % focus and self realization will give the 80 result. This will help good relationship with others and also improve your quality of your life. Self-realization plays vital role on the health and diet plan. Because if you start to take diet without proper realization, you don't know what is happening inside you after a while. In the mean time, if you start to take with self-realization you will come to know How this food+ medicine react in your body. Health is playing vital role for building consistency character. This will give you more confidence on what you are pursuing.
Self-Realization Fellowship seemed like training. It was the training ground for finding a sense of peace in myself. Because that's my job. It's no one else's. - Mariel Hemingway
A job should bring enough for a worker and family to live on, but after that, self-realization, the exercise of one's gifts and talents, is what truly matters. - Michael Dirda
It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. - John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love
You must have a level of discontent to feel the urge to want to grow - Idowu Koyenikan: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability
A strong man cannot help a weaker unless the weaker is willing to be helped, and even then the weak man must become strong of himself; he must, by his own efforts, develop the strength which he admires in another. None but himself can alter his condition. - James Allen, As a Man Thinketh
Only you can take inner freedom away from yourself, or give it to yourself. Nobody else can. -Michael A. Singer, The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself.
While considering self-realization, I also recommend How to make good relationship. so look on balance point of view to maintain consistency relationship/communication with your neighbor is important.
Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life without it.. it dies.
A relationship should be based on communication not on assumption.
Love without conversation is impossible.
In teamwork, silence isn't golden, it's deadly - Mark Sanborn
if everyone is moving forward together, then success takes care of itself - Henry Ford (Communication disguised on this)
Effective communication 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know. - Jim Rohn
I have always believed that technology should do the hard work – discovery, organization, communication – so users can do what makes them happiest: living and loving, not messing with annoying computers! That means making our products work together seamlessly.- Larry Page
To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others. - Anthony Robbins
Daily Routine: It will easy to manage your daily life in a better way. Doing the same thing again and again and try to improve life through an optimized/tuned way. The secret of your future is hidden in your daily routine.
Patience and Determination | Persistence until the end
Be patient with the process. Because perfection will come through enduring until the end. At the same time do everything in the realized way(taste it) instead of going fast it will make you nervous and panic, finally you can not endure until the end. persistence pays off. persistence is very important, never underestimate persistence. Through patience, we can inherit a lot of good virtue with the simplicity of obedience, commitment, and skills.
It is not that I am so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer- Albert Einstein.
Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work, So most people don’t recognize them
Source: https://rickconlow.com/50-persistence-quotes-inspire-motivate/
Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to always try just one more time - Thomas Edison
With ordinary talent and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable - Thomas Foxwell
Patient and Persistence gives the result as Quality.
Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
People that aren't used to quality always chase quantity.
Quality is remembered long after the prices is forgotten.
Diligent and Dedication | Carefully Evaluate Everything
Use your time diligently, Focus on your goals, and needs to be complete/pending in your do/to list. Develop your self-awareness about your weakness and past failures. Don’t get condemn at the same time, after your success also don't get proud. Evaluating and testing on anything product/human/environment is play vital role. we should not take long time, we have to judge within short period with intensive pressure.
Be realistic: Try to follow your diligent goal in a realistic way, not an unrealistic way(Be honest yourself).
Safer Side: Ask yourself your drive to pursue a certain goal is negatively impacting your relationship with the people you love.
Difficult to focus: sometimes it is difficult to focus so be alert.
A diligent hand will rule lazy hand will slave.
The one who diligently seeks good seeks favor.
Error: Diligent people always avoid sloppy errors. A diligent person carefully evaluates everything in a quality way. Not depends on talent but commitment and perseverance.
Diligent People Character:
1. Work Hard, Silent, and
2. Watchful/Listening,
3. Do the right thing at right time.
4. Flexibility and gentleness.
5. Don’t go out of the boundary
6. knowledgable
your lack of dedication is an insult to those who believe in you.
Talent is cheap; dedication is expensive. it will cost you your life. - Iriving Stone
Believe that your hard work, dedication and persistence will pay off; improve through continual learning and believe in your future. - Lorri myers
Conclusion: All the characteristics can categorize into two ways success or failure. All the success their natural habits come together, we can call it a successful family like consistency, patience, persistence, diligence and hard work. On the other hand, failure has its own family and DNA like poor planning, lack of effort and commitment, lack of responsibility. So we need to judge ourselves where is our DNA.
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